Here we are!
A decreed expert of life, through discovering and healing oneself, exploring the world, and rising up to and meeting my predestined story.
Story time... I am what I am! Why you should trust me, like those doctor type credentials.
The major stuff;
- I was brought up poor to a single mom who was raised herself by abusive alcoholics, ending that cycle with me, who was also a teacher in the ghetto,
- Conceived me in the Middle East, went through the Great Pyramid while I was in utero, at a year old told by a Buddhist monk that I am going to do major things in this life for others,
- Befriended everyone and anything, was severely burned at 12 years old by my best friend, that same friend was murdered 10 years later by another friend,
- Traveled to over 20 states (USA), 20 countries and 5 continents, survived being kidnapped while in one of those countries,
- Studied Psychology getting my B.A with honors, went through the Counseling M.A. program for MFT rooted in CBT,
- Worked at an inpatient drug and alcohol rehab center counseling clients on the night shift,
- Did in-home care with mentally/physically handicapped adults for 9 years,
- Was arrested at gun point after a high-speed chase and crash, got sober after years of "trying too",
- Managed a county wide grant that won an international gold medal award, worked in Social Services as well (combined 7 years +),
- Endured several abusive relationships with mentally unstable woman, and so on and so on......ok, those are some of my "Life's Credentials" or "Degrees" so to speak.
They call them 'degrees' for a reason in college, but here we also call them that in real life. I hold those degrees with a higher standard, as should you!
What is your story and how does it run your life?
I have transformed to accept, heal, grow, apply, live, and pass along all of the lessons learned through my life and others!
I have been able to take the pain and negativity of trauma and turn that energy into happiness and positive growth. I am always still a student of life however, and with that, lets learn about you!
The Cult(ure) we all desire
Community is the only real way to change oneself, in a complete way. A weekly group that every member can be a part of and partake in. This is a vital component to reach heights unknown. It truly does take a village to raise a child, or in this case, heal what needs to be healed.
The support of others toward individual goals creates unprecedent accountability. We bring our weekly "to done list" and share with the team in a trusting environment.
Something amazing happens here; Your support of others makes your support of self.....Go through the roof! We simply, "just keep rowing" as I often say.
WE build our community that WE desire, from scratch, to our liking and needs. This is our time, so step into all things powerful and unleash your awesome with the rest of us! A group designed for success, as failure is literally not an option, not just a cute saying. All aboard!
Meet the Team
Aspects to my program, that are the personalities which have been shaping self.
The Map Maker
Sir K.M. Shores- Cartographer Extrodinaire
What is your TRUE NORTH? Well, one could say that it is everywhere, not just up in the sky or straight ahead! We create our maps to life through what is learned as we grow up and are also intrinsically born with.
Every single event that has ever transpired in your life, is transpiring right now, and will unfold in the soon to be. It will make a past, present, and future map to your reality. We explore them all, draw out the ones in control, and using honest introspection, we set forth together and proceed to conquer the confusion as to where we are. Then, where we can and will go, proceeds.
We assess 4 layers to the self for a sense of realization that culminates in being exactly what you want to become.
They are maps which are built on; The Self, The Community, Your Ancestors, and Discovery X. Purpose and Completion to life's overlays are the byproduct of thorough map making and sailing the seas of mystery!!!
Our Ship Builder
Don Kian- The Sense King
Our life experiences have led to holes in our ships (bodies) and a captured captain's seat (altered states of mind) that all lead to a certain degree of discomfort.
Our ships have been commandeered by lots of outside and internal forces and perpetuated by the self. Rebuilding the boat and sailing on in this realm is vital to the ability to change, grow, and become exactly what we want.
We will learn techniques that will allow for this to occur that will last a lifetime. They are easy, difficult, challenging, and fun! It will be seen as a complete detox and strengthening of our senses. Yes, the Breath, Touch, Sight, Sound, Taste, and Everything Else, is how to assess our ships. They are the cannons on our ship, or the weapons for positive change and fending off the maladaptive...
One Key Maker
The Kh(i)an- Ruler Of Self
A "Smith" is one who changes the environment with their alchemical mastery to life that has now been learned and put into practice. The shattered and scattered aspects to self, have now been found. We then have to put the pieces back correctly and remake the key. The self has returned to the original state with imperfect perfections.
The now sealed cracks are our experiences! We will learn how they can be fuel to the fire that will drive our goal and life accomplishments. They unlock life's treasure chest. Now that original key has been polished through the sands of time, finally unlocked, we look at our purpose. The great life work you have finally chosen to embark on has now set sail in the correct direction and with the proper equipment...which means you are going to be unstoppable. Boom!